Aaghaz-e-Dosti
74 years ago, India and Pakistan emerged as two sovereign countries from British India. Lines were drawn on land, water and even in the sky. They took different political turns. Their relations saw many ups and downs. There have been several instances of open conflicts. There have been instances where the relation had almost reached a dead end.
But beyond politics, beyond the control of minds, there are hearts which are still full of love and hope. Following every political clash, there were attempts by the civil society in both countries to rekindle the hopes. And each time, they managed to win hearts because they were only bringing out the hidden love and desire for peace which rests in every heart.
An average Indian and a Pakistani have the same secret desire to cross the border, atleast once. They want to see what people on the “other” side eat, how they talk, how they look and how they think. And if it is to be believed what those lucky people who have visited says, they will be highly ‘disappointed’ because it is just the same there. We share a common history, a common language, a common culture and even a common desire.
With a huge sense of pride, the third generation would narrate how their grandparents had crossed the borders. There is a “Lahore Driving School” in Delhi. People on both sides are consciously trying to preserve this fact of migration. The images of the past, the nostalgia are still being invoked, after 70 years, after all the political clashes and fluctuating relations.
It shows the common desire which is to build strong ties of friendship and brotherhood. India and Pakistan has even the same political, economic and social challenges to fight with. So why to keep the falsely constructed distance?
Let these barriers only be political (administrative) ones because socially and culturally there are no barriers. These barriers have been constructed and have to be demolished. The barriers of suspicion and hatred are also constructed and have to be demolished too. And these barriers cannot be removed by people with bodyguards or with guns. They can be removed by people who are faceless in crowds and voiceless in a chorus. They can be removed only by the so-called “common people” or the aam insaan.
Aaghaz-e-Dosti (lit. beginning of Friendship) seeks to enhance people-to-people relations. It seeks to become the medium to discover and recognise the misrepresented reality on the other side of the border. Aaghaz-e-Dosti was started in 2012 and it encourages volunteers to work for peace, particularly through peace education.
There have been collaborating organisations for individual events. We join individuals and like-minded organisations to join us in our mission.
Join us..Let’s create a new chapter of peace and friendship.
Realy a great article……..i like & want to endorse it to all my peace loving friends
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hiiiiiii great website
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Dear Sir,
i being president Maas Foundation ( A leading theatre group of Pakistan) always like to appreciate the idea as here in pakistan we are working on same agenda of peace and friendship b/w these two countries already.
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can you also include Bangladesh?
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love all serve everbody no fight at all terrorism is the enemy of all humanity
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Both India and Pakistan are remote controlled by Neocons and Zionists (search and read about them). Our treasuries are controlled from outside ( all money from reserve banks is debt money on interest). Incidents and wars are generated/instigated to destroy our economies. Friendship amongst neighbours of the region and de-militarisation are the keys to progress in the region. Why should we be part of arms race ? They shall never be used and shall become obsolete with time. We shall then spend more and more to buy newer and newer war weapons. For what ? Dosti amongst the two nations is key to any meaningful progress, else we remain play things for Anglo-American-Israel-Saudi Arabia block.
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Great message Daljit Sir
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I think one of best ways to generate people to people contact is to organize cultural, programmes on both sides , inviting singers from pak to organise musical concerts in india.
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I completely agree with your thought of inviting singers from both the countries and having concerts.MUSIC HAS BEEN ONE OF THE STRONGEST AGENTS FOR THE CHANGE IN INDO PAK RELATIONS.
without meeting each other, how can we think of friendship? How can we trust each other if we don’t get to interact? The misunderstandings exist because we don’t know each other, we have not seen each other, and we have not visited each other’s country? IF WE HAVE FRIENDS IN PAKISTAN, CAN WE EVER THINK OF DOING ANY HARM TO THAT COUNTRY? The misunderstandings and suspicion exists because we think we are different. But are we? Who speak the same language, look just the same, hold same values and beliefs and the same desire to visit each other’s country…… REALLY DIFFERENT?
However, PEOPLE IN BOTH COUNTRIES HAVE ACTED MUCH MORE MATURE AND HAVE MOVED ON. THEY ARE READY FOR A STRONG BOND OF FRIENDSHIP AND BROTHERHOOD. Many Pakistanis cross the border for medical treatments. Similarly, traders and business men have also increasingly moved beyond the borders.
We cannot go and delete a chapter in history but we can definitely add a new one. We can add a chapter which says, “AND THEY LIVED HAPPILY EVER AFTER……”
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Realy great. . .i like it,wo wanna only peace and friendship,we will get. . .
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Yes i like frndship for anyone.
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Fantastic idea and mission
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thats reality i also love to be frend
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A friendly conversation between an Indian and a Pakistani is very predictable. It will always start with a fascination about each other’s politics, culture and mainstream cinema and will then migrate to the fact about common history and will END WITH A MOAN ABOUT THE IDEA OF SEPARATION.
It all seems very predictable but it shows the common desire which is to forge strong ties of friendship and brotherhood. India and Pakistan has even the same challenges to fight with. So why to keep the falsely constructed distance?
We cannot go and delete a chapter in history but we can definitely add a new one. We can add a chapter which says, “AND THEY LIVED HAPPILY EVER AFTER……”
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Guys #AAGHAAZEDOSTI Hatts off to u……..4 ths initiative……..
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We r not friends ,we r brothers.Therefore relationship should be seen as such.The brother if young n weak needs to be taken care of very sensitively. We need sense brotherhood…r
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I agree with R Vikram Singh. Because our ancestors were same therefore or religious believes cannot change our relation’ We donot throw our brothers infire just because of his thought but we accept him even if he is wrong’ Even those 10 percent who claim arab ancestory Had Indian mothers!
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I wanted this comment to go to the article. The spirit of your organisation’s effort, is the same that has made our dear Malala Yousefzai urge friendship and reconcilliation between India and Pakistan, still sharers in the same basic social fabric.
Social divisions that people make between one another, as in caste, ancestry, economic standing, social standing, even physical appearance, are so deeply endemic in all of Asia, that I feel the only way out of it is to introduce sociology and anthropology courses in education; to encourage the development of a broader perspective on all human societies. This will bring about greater genuine tolerance and self examination.
That Indian ( and by that I mean India, Nepal, Bangladesh, Pakistan) suffer from an identity crisis of an immense magnitude is demonstrated through behavior, particularly in the nation of India, of imitation of a bizarre concept of being a global citizen – jeans, t-shirt, tights, sexual mores, drinking, etc. India is being culturally co-opted by media forces, and youth, glued to their gadgets, without a strong sense of who they are, are gung-ho on what they are seeing. They are, as a whole, completely unaware of the massive ecological crisis enveloping this planet.
This problem is very deep. It is painful to see what is possibly the world’s richest cultural fabric, full of artistry, interdependent science, musical refinement, and social values, totally unabsorbed by youth today. The only way out, is respect. People that are imitating, do not have respect, they are insecure.
Sometimes, a complete destruction of everything is necessary to rebuild, but, you cannot rebuild anything great when the knowledge and skills cultivated painstakingly for eons, are gone. At this moment, the last generation of grandmothers, who hold the keys to living life gently upon the earth, with refinement and propriety, are fading away. As an old lady, I cry for youth, who will grow up in a world without any clean water, everything polluted, their genes distorted by nuclear radiation, their brains fried by EMF, their ability to become mature, thinking people, destroyed by taking away their vision of interdependence and experience with Nature, their knowledge of how to handle those relations.
Yet, yours is a bright voice, a spark of light. Keep going, cling to the ideal of Oneness of the human family and all life. Watch and listen to the experiences of western astronauts who have returned from space, and seen our planet as one entire living organism. Let the reality of our Oneness with all life, not only political, be your guiding star.
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Yes we condemn this cowardly act ,we are together to fight it out.
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I highly appreciate this endeavour of friendship with a little bit suggestion of strengthening friendship instead of starting friendship. There is a famous saying that we cannot change our neighbors. so we have to be friends and good friends for the sake of 1.3 billion population of the two countries. We have to compromise and adjust according to the needs of time. Both of us are spending on defence budgets out of proportions. An improvement in people to people contact will definitely strengthen relations between the both.
Widespread poverty is the real common enemy of India and Pakistan. We are have to join hands together to eradicate eliminate and defeat this enemy. If Pakistan and India are able to resolve their conflicting issues for good then Pakistan and India can utilize their geo-strategic advantage. Gas pipeline agreement among Iran, Pakistan and India has already been concluded. Gwadar port and extension of SILK ROUTE to Central Asian states are those dreams which are about to become a reality in near future. These developments are ringing the bells of much brighter future of the region. India and China have already stunned the world with high gowth rates in the last 3 to 4 decades.These developments will not only challenge the monopoly but surely shift the balance of Economic Strength from Europe and Americas to this region. Almost half of the world population reside in this region comprising of China, India, Pakistan, Iran, Afghanistan and Centra Asian states.This Region is blessed with everything from Natural Resources, Agricultural potential to abundant availability of Human Resources. BUT MY FRIENDS ALL THIS IS CONDITIONED WITH PEACEFUL AND CORDIAL RELATIONS BETWEEN INDIA AND PAKISTAN.
It is high time to realize this changing scenario and lets stand up to support our governments and defeat all the conspiracies against the bright future of the countries of the region. Now SAFTA can turn into CICASAFTA (China, Iran, Central Asia, South Asia Free Trade Association).
Come and support this initiative. like us on facebook.
https://www.facebook.com/pakistanindiafriendz?ref=aymt_homepage_panel
Malik Asghar Ali
Chief Editor: Capital Aler Isalamabad.
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Malik Asghar Ali ,right i accept ur idea.
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Friendship is more valuable than any other relationship. True friendship is like life saving medicine, gives a new life to dieing humanity.
True friends are the best gifts by Almighty God on this earth.
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Good effort. Firing and bombs have never solved any problems. But love can do it. Please continue the good effort.
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Aaghaz-e-Dosti welldone …wounderfull job done (Y) (Y)
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its a great service ♥·♥♥♡♥♡♥♡♥♡
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Good work has being done. Please continue.
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Divinity is not in Religion not in country , its lies in Healthy human relations .Its really great initiative to activate a peaceful relationship between two counties while Media from Both countries presenting others as Culprits , these kind of activities are much needed kudos to your effort
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Good work . Keep it up. Let us vanish hates accros the borders
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realy great thinking I like n sapport
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Everybody migrated from either side still longs for to visit his native land where he had spent his earlier days of his life. Atleast it is my inner feeling. I was of 17 years at the time of partition of India and am now 85. I have still the imprints of earlier days and still feel to have some friendship at my native place Gujrat (Punjab).
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Great blog!! These are very fabulous pictures and I liked your ideas in photography.
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Historical decision taken by activists ,I can’t believe the borders and all that, broken all these boundary’s and let it be united,
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Great website I like it
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suvichar
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Grt work. God b with u. If you need any help from me im always their. I’m working for a institute and visit many school. Im working in hyderabad (India).
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Thank you for your words. You can always contact us through aaghazedosti@gmail.com
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good platform to join a nation equal
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Hum dost nahi bhai hain. Na jaane ye kaisi ladai hai. Aaj nahi to kal ek honge hum. Maine ye dua Khuda se kubool karwai hai.
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Despite widespread of common people for peace understanding and cnormak neighbourly relations ,the establishments on both sides in connivance with other beneficiaries of hatred and aniimoisty , are equally determined to frustrate any such attemp.
However due to social media , now people to people contact is a fast growing reality .
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the youth of both contries is interested in being friends because both have positive thinking as well as communication.. the only need is to iniyiate this .. and that programm is like a initiation for both.. so i am realy in favor .. hats of to AGHAAZ AE DOSTI
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I stay at Shobhanagar, an area in Nanded, Maharashtra where People from all religions stay together. Feel extremely proud about this.
I have stayed at around 10-11 places in 3 countries through my life . Am exposed to so many religions, castes, beliefs and cultures. It’s amazing that basic humanity prevails in all human beings irrespective of their religion. And it’s more amazing that nobody, I repeat nobody ever even remotely tried to subvert me in any way based on my religion.
And I have never felt so proud about myself when, on being asked by my elder son: “what kind of a country is Pakistan?” I replied it’s a good country.
No surprises that today my son has thousands of Facebook friends and the list encompasses pope ke from all religions, background and countries!!!
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E mere bhai mujse kab tak khafa rehega…..
Aja teri yade muje rat din satati he…
Aja fir ekbar apne kheto me hi pipal k ped k niche beth k roti-bhaji ki pyar bhari mezbani le le…
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Great
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Dear Sir ,
Hi, my name is Zuhaib Khan . I m a student of 2nd year from INGOU College
From Jammu & Kashmir India .All my relatives living in Pakistan..i want to met all my relatives living in Pakistan.
I need yours MemberShip because I want to make brotherhood, loving , peace & happiness between both the countries.
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Thank you for your words. You can always contact us through aaghazedosti@gmail.com
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Hi, i am a criminal lawyer at delhi high court, i would like to help this noble organisation, by representing the unrepresented pakistani prisoners who are languishing in tihar jail.
I will fight there cases for free of cost if their case has even a slightest merit.
I hope by this effort of mine, it would advance the cause of justice.
Thank you
Vikram singh
Advocate
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i appreciate your willingness
sada abaad raheen
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Thank you for your words. You can always contact us through aaghazedosti@gmail.com
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I KNOW ONE THING & THAT IS TRUE
THAT
“NONE IS SUPERIOR TO HUMANITY”
THERE IS NO ANY SINGLE
( RELIGION, CULTURE, TRADITION)
AGAINST IT……………………………………
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Read about this website in our area newspaper containing a short article on how few peoples are still there who wants peace in both the countries. Love the article and also meanwhile loved the page that you people have created and are supporting strongly. Would love to be a proud person(neither as an INDIAN nor as a PAKISTANI but as a good human being) by being a member of your group.
“LOVE HUMANITY…..LOVE YOURSELF”.
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Thank you for your words. You can always contact us through aaghazedosti@gmail.com
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WISH YOU ALL THE BEST FOR PEACE BETWEEN INDIA AND PAKISTAN I’M HAPPY TO PARTICIPATE IN ALL INDIA WALK OF HOPE THAT IS FROM KANYAKUMARI TO SRINAGAR IN KASHMIR WE WALKED 7500 KM BY THE Sri M, The founder and motivator of walk of hope
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Your group is like a ray of light in the midst of deep darkness. My best wishes.
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Nice initiative by both the countries
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It’s been a wonderful platform for the people to people connectivity and above all to maintain peace among people from both the sides of the borders. I had a wonderful experience while I toured to India to experience my native places and meet my uncle, their families. My blood relatives and their hospitality, it were simply unforgettable to me till date.
During my tour, I was very intrested to visit the historical places as I was studying indopak history at that moment so I had paid visit on a long day tour in a touring bus to Agra, fatehpursikri and mathura. I still remember it was 25 December and it was public Holliday so it was quite rush on that day. Our bus set off from a pick point in New Delhi at 6.30 am and the freezing cold at that moment because I haven’t experienced such chilled winter as I belong to Karachi and we didn’t get such cold weather in winters. So it was freezing cold and I along with my uncle and cousin went on to our tour. Our first stop at 12 pm to Agra fort and that was briefed by our bus guide at each and every corner of the fort with its importance. After that we moved to a restaurant for our lunch and around 3 pm we reached the wonderful Taj Mahal. As I mentioned earlier due to a public holiday, there was a long que to enter in that place. We took several clicks of different places. I still remember inside the Taj Mahal the grill that is sealed now by govt. that goes underground to the original burial places of the emperor shahjehan and mumtaz. After that we moved to fatehpursikri to experience the tomb of Saleem Chishti and the world’s longest gate of the tomb. It was huge very huge. It took very long for us from the morning and we were very tired that we didn’t went to mathura and we’re back to Delhi by 11.30 pm.
This was one of my beautiful memory of my tour to India. I ll share more experiences in my next comments. Take care
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. its good…. how can join
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Of what I have experienced personally when individuals meet, say abroad in eg Singapore or Dubai or England , we as Indians and Pakistanis share an amazing bond.
This is mainly as we meet face to face and keep face values
We invite each other over for dinner and even socialise
Keeping this in mind, I personally feel that via social media if we individuals unite, we can overcome the Controversies of both Nations put together
We already have a cure, No arms No ammunition can give a positive result
Just ” love And respect ” can nurture all respective issues
Our life is set on a lease deed, we can not own anything , let’s all live with happiness and peace which already is present in every individual , we just have to tune it to that Frequency and we all shall emerge as one of the most loving nations and even set an example to all 🙏
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Hello . Sir /mam
I’m Soo interested in this concept for Indo Pak relationship . Plz so interested going to Pakistan tour visiting plz I need your help for Going to Pakistan tour ..
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Dear Monisha,
There is no tourist visa between Pakistan-India and also, Aaghaz-e-Dosti doesn’t run exchange programs. However, please keep in touch with our social media accounts as we also share initiatives, conference announcements etc of other organisations if we find such info.
Regards,
Aaghaz-e-Dosti
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Really appreciating whomever initiate this step.
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I want to visit so many people,places. But mainly hanging place of Bhagat Singh and comrades. Shooting place from where Azad targeted Chanan singh.,DAV College etc
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Can We meet at place of Prof Jagmohan Singh Ludhiana, Punjab. It’s place of nephew of Martyr BHAGAT Singh. Also birth place of Sukhdev and Ghadri leader and Guru of Bhagat Singh Kartar Singh Sarabha ( Sarabha vill in LUDHIANA )
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